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Sex before marrage is wrong and immoral!!!

29 Votes
  • Start Date:
    6-10-2008
  • Last Vote:
    6-1-2009

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Sexual intercourse should be between two people who love each other and are married. Sexual intercourse is a spiritual bond between lovers; saying that they're the only one for them and they don't need anyone to complete themselves in that special way. Not two people who love eachother temporarily; not destined to marry the other. ** Choose agree if you believe that sex before marrage is wrong. and disargee if you think people should just have sex whenever they want, making sex just a game.

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Submitted on 2-12-2009

its just sex its all good!!

Submitted on 1-31-2009

I think that if you wanna f**k, then you gonna f**k.
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The Great Wolverine

Submitted on 12-2-2008

ok so im a teenage and this is how i feel about sex before marrage: its fine i mean if you like or love the person it should not matter when they have sex but it is not something to do with anyone because you are board or something like that but i say that its fine to have sex before marrage

Submitted on 12-19-2008

How do you know if you really love someone though? Especially before marriage?
The concept of one loving another is difficult. People confuse their feelings very easily. I've gone out with a couple different guys whom I really loved, but in the end I realized I didn't love them in the way I thought I did.
Over the years I've really come to the conclusion that sex before marriage is NOT the right decision. Currently I'm going out with a guy who doesn't want to have sex UNTIL we're married. When he heard about my previous relationships, he got upset. He didn't like the thought of me having sex with the guys. It's really damaged our relationship. We're still together, but you can tell that he gets scared when I leave to go hang with a guy friend. He thinks that since I've already had sex then there's nothing stopping me from doing it again. His trust for me has somewhat broken, because of the fact that I have already had sex. And I truly regret my decisions to have sex before marriage.
One reason I truly love the guy I'm going out with right now is the fact that he doesn't want to have sex with me until after marriage. I love the thought that he isn't out for me for sex. I believe that shows true love. By waiting until after marriage to have sex, he's shown me that he respects me and my body, and he is NOT lustful.
In my honest opinion, premarital sex is a horribly wrong decision.

Submitted on 11-3-2008

when you give yourself away you ruin it for yourself.

Submitted on 10-4-2008

I disagree, having sex outside of marriage is normal, I believe that you should be in love with the person if your going to have sex with them. I do think its wrong to go around and sleep with a bunch of people cause that just makes you a wh*re. And I do believe sex should be kept between 2 people. Some people have sex with each other and end up getting married later in life as well, some people stay together their whole live and have sex and choose not to be married.
But theres nothing wrong with being sexually active, just as long as you love the person your with.

Submitted on 8-10-2008

Joe Jonas Lover I don't think sex is a game, i don't even really think that sex BEFORE marriage is WRONG, when you are young, you are supposed to EXPERIMENT with your BODY, if you have sex BEFORE you are married, so what? you are just EXPLORING your SEXUALITY.so, having SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, IS OK....I DONT BELIEVE THAT IT IS WRONG....

Submitted on 9-25-2008

oh gosh. that's one of the most ridiculous things i have ever heard. "exploring your sexuality" and "experiment with your body". cmon really. that's just plain dumb. honestly. you learn nothing from having sex before marriage. you dont learn anything from sex in general. so why "experiment with your body"? what's there to experiment? and "explore your sexuality"? cmon. why not just wait til you're married to do that... seriously. you're not missing out on anything if you just wait. there's not much point to do it outside of marriage.

Submitted on 6-1-2009
Why is it ridiculous? The shoes on your feet... you tried them on before you bought them right? People have sexual compatibility that you should not ignore. You may find yourself in a situation where what make you very happy sexually, may not be what your partner likes. Just because you spent a long time making sure this person is the one for you mentally, physically, and financially, it does not mean that they are the right person for you in bed. I cannot even comprehend how you can "learn nothing from having sex before marriage." That statement is quite ignorant. Let's remove some of the ignorance. Any time that you open your mind while making love (note that I did not say have sex)you are bound to learn from your partner. You learn what works and what doesn't. If you are not learning, you are doing it wrong, or, you quit paying attention (probably one of the big reasons for marriage failure for those who ARE married). Because there is so much of a spectrum to the world of sexuality, you have to experiment SAFELY. I do hope that you got this far in the message to know that I am sincere about this. Good luck dear lady, be happy!
Submitted on 7-25-2008

i think that is normal and is not inmoral.
you have to protect yourself and that it!!
i think that is something that people who lov each others do it is 4 love!! BUT IF YOU ONLY DOIT 4 "PLAY"THAT IS INMORAL.

Submitted on 7-14-2008

I think that sex outside of marriage is okay as long as you do truly love that person. However i do not think that one night stands are okay. The media plays up sex so that teens and little children think that it's okay to have for whatever reason. So if people wait until after marraige thats great but most people won't.I babysit an eleven year old who asked me what sex is like so I kind of blame the media for that one.

Submitted on 7-13-2008

I don't believe that sex before marriage is wrong, but I do believe that it should be with someone whom you do love.

Submitted on 7-9-2008

I think that it's fine for two people to have sexual intercoruse before marriage jsut as long as they are at or above the age of consent and they are nto forced to do anything. Saying that sex before marriage is wrong is a personal religious belief that should not be forced upon others. It's their choice, let them have sex if thay want.

Submitted on 6-22-2008

sexual intercourse outside of marriage is wrong. sex is for procreation and the bonding of a man and woman married to each other, not for pleasure. it bonds two people physically once they are married. when having sex with someone you are saying that you love him/her and you want to have children with him/her and that you would give yourself to him/her and no one else. When having sex with someone outside of marriage you are lying with your body. You do not really love that person and you are not giving all of yourself to that person. You're just using him/her to obtain "pleasure". You are only doing it for yourself. It's selfish and it objectifies humans. It makes them only tools and nothing more.

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Submitted on 6-1-2009
Ok, now we get to the bottom of it. These are theological beliefs... ok, I will not step on those toes, but do disagree as my faith differs from yours. BTW humans are objects, therefore we cannot help but be objectified.
Submitted on 7-9-2008

If it is not for pelasure, why does it feel pleasurable?

Submitted on 6-2-2009
If there were no pleasure associated, then it would be far less apt to happen and we as a race would die out. :-)
Submitted on 7-13-2008

The way you feel after/during an action does not mean that the action is solely for that purpose.
I can say that playing volleyball makes me happy, but that doesn't mean that the purpose of volleyball is to make me happy.
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Submitted on 6-12-2008

I think it is ok for two people to have sex before marriage,as long as they are of age and nothing is forced apon them, then i dont see anything wrong.Thosands of people live together really happy,not everyone wants to get married.

Submitted on 6-10-2008

sexual intercourse outside marriage is lust, selfish and ungodly..

Submitted on 6-22-2008

i agree with you one hundred percent! =)
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