i would go out with either but realy id like to go out with someone i love and that loves me to

wouldnt you go for both or are yiu saying that you cant have both?

If i love someone and he doesn't love me back then i wouldn't go for him. He's not worth my time. I'm not gonna give all i have to someone who doesn't love me back.I'm not gonna waste my life pretending. The person who loves me though...that's another issue...I wouldn't go for him just because i like the feeling of being loved. I would go for him because i love him and he loves me. I would need the same feelings towards him. It's the same idea: I'm not gonna waste my life pretending. And pretending to like someone would just lead that person on. and in the end it would hurt them.
Relationships can be complicated. And finding the person who loves you and you love him/her back can be difficult, but If you're meant to be with someone you'll find him/her. Don't go for someone who doesn't share the same feelings for you as you share for him/her.and vice versa. Happiness can't be reached if one of the people in a relationship doesn't feel the same as the other.
This question is complicated. I definitely wouldn't go for the person i love if that person doesn't love me back and would only hurt me. The person who loves me though...i don't know....it really depends on who the person is and if i have the same feelings towards that person. Sorry i can't really answer the question.

Love is nothing but a spitual attreaction to whom you feel something to be loved... Can't say how soon i can love any one but its true that when love comes in life nothing looks like except beloved.......more commenst at (ali.rizvi@kohinoormills.com) see ya....

how much money are talking about ha ha

Hey, I'm a 'noob'.
My husband is someone I knew I loved and who loved me. We're both doctors in the same department so we understood one another's stresses and everything just fit into place, you know? Good lord, it wasn't easy and we've had rought times, but it was just right.
I think that in the end, I wouldn't go with either if it was one-sided, it'd never work.

The doctor is in.

I think you should be a bit more specific..
Because love is way, way complicated.
Life gives a whole darn lot of obstacles, that "someone you love or someone that loves you"
cant really be possible.
Okay, sorry for the rambling.
But for me, I would feel BETTER if I go for someone whom I love.
Who knows, that person might come to you someday.. *nudgenudge winkwink*

Dont look at me! I'm a n00b with love. Haha..

someone who loves me. why go for him if he doesn't love you? i mean..you'll just get hurt in loving someone that doesn't love you back.

someone who loves me

Man, thats tough!  I love the feeling of being " IN LOVE", but I seem to never have good timing.  The one guy that I still love, never loved me at the same time.  Its like we took turns.  When I've had people who were in love with me, and I didn't feel the same back, it felt great for a while.  Someone giving you undivided attention, thinking of you before anything, but it usually left me empty and sad.  So, I say they both suck!!  When you love someone whole heartedly, and they are just not there yet, or to have someone to love you whole heartedly, and you let them go for fear of waisting their time, ****, how sad is that?  I choose lonliness.  Its safe.

I am not sure.  Being loved is one of life's greatest gifts.  Loving and caring from someone is also one of life's greatest gifts.  Being needed and caring for someone, including caring for street people by participatiting in organizations which help them or participating in organizations which stop cruelty to animals are rewarding.  Being needed seems to be a strong human need in itself.

LOVE isn't a FEELING, LOVE is an ACTION!!!!! PASSION is a feeling. Been there, done it, got my shirt taken!!!! Instead of TAKING what was AVAILABLE,..... and WAITING for what was OPTIMUM.......that is where you NEVER think about questions like this one. PEOPLE who REALLY LOVE each other, will ALWAYS tell you it is 100%.....not 50/50. The other 50% is SELFISH intent, and LOVE is NEVER SELFISH!!!!!!  NO one has the power to MAKE the other person happy, HAPPINESS is an individual choice. You can put feathers on a pig and it STILL won't fly......and it really annoys the pig!!!  If we could learn how to trully HONOR each other like brothers and sisters first, then when the bedroom cools down, you BOTH...... still have the best thing going......IMO.

i dont realy know, it depends how i feel about the person that loved me, if i realy didnt like him that much, then id go for the one that i love, but if i can get used to the idea, id go for the one that loves me.

I would rather spend my life with someone who loves me than with other who maybe don't like me at all and then feel hurt,bad ans asking myself  ''what if . . .''

Thats a good-one there, Can't we just do both? If I have to pick, I would have to go with: Some'one who loves me.

SOMEONE YOU LOVE! The answer is simple - been there and done that. Some you want is always going to catch your eye and you'll abandon the one who loves you and hurt them. So don't settle for less than you want when it comes to matters of the heart. You have a right to be happy.

Someone who loves me becuse they would never hurt me and my love would grow more every day for them.

its kinda hard to love especially if heaven and earth won't connive gosh its the hardest thing to solve..hmmmm i really have to feel the same thing to be loved and to love before i will put my great answer on this.. i once answered "i'll go for someone i love" but now i really have to think more.. i really have to munch more  on what am i gonna answer. i have to experience both so that i may know the real essence of this question...let's see what will happen next.hmmmmmmmmmmm 

I will go for some one who loves me,because he could make me like a queen--- For sure he will do everything what I wanted to have simply because he loves me. According to the statistics-Women will easily get develop specially when the guy gives what you want.....for sure youll agree to that right girls!!!!!!! Where as If ill go with the guy whom i really love' its kinda jerk to think because when you love you have to please somebody to win his love to you---- you'll be in vain waiting for that person to loves you back........ so what if he wont love me back? its kinda unfair on my part.........WELL it says when you love youll just GIVE-GIVE-GIVE and GIVE.......which is not my attitude...... I dont want to be repayed my kindness in harm by just hurting me because he cant love me back.

azerethmoonIsn' t it wonderful to talk about love?...Usually we stand for what we believe in and that what keeps us going, but then here comes the reality. As what experience taught me, I rather choose the one I love, coz things taught me even if I get hurt sometimes in the game of love, still the idea of making my way back into "Love" hits me. And that only happens when I find myself loving again...:)

i would go for someone who loves me

just sticking with the choices, id pick the one who loves me, but in order for me to stick with that person he should love me unconditionally, if proven, then ill be more than happy to stay with that person.  i beleive i can always teach my heart to love because that really depend on that person's nature, in my case i can say i can. however i dont have any control over someone else's...so rather that torture myself waiting and eventually have self pity and all the psycological hazards rejection gives, id rather save myself from all that and enjoy the love this person  can actually give me

it depends. i believe love is a two-way street and one person should not give or take more than is being given or taken. if i love someone and they don't love me back, i can't remain in love with that person. conversely, if someone loves me and i don't love them back, i would not expect that love to last very long. love should be an equal balance, but that's just my opinion.

i would honestly go for someone who loves me because my love for them can grow the more i spend time with them

well as i can see it if a guy already says he loves the first girl and he goes with another girl and the first girl found out that he been with another girl and she chooses to forgive him then he should go with the first girl who he says he loves and the second one he should leave but if she is upset and doesnt want anything to do with him then its his decision whether he should go with the second girl but personally i think the guy going with the second girl was a big mistake for him and it didnt mean anything

i can't love yet.Somewhat sad, but i just cannot love....Not yet, anyways...

In times when your heart is broken, you really would not want to burst your stand bout this issue. How could I expect so much from someone who I thought is in LOVE with me? On the other hand, I am not 100% certain if he is that in LOVE with me. It feels so sad and empty inside that all you would want and do is scream and cry until your eyes will no longer shed tears.:-(

it's sooo good to feel loved. but it also feels just as nice loving somebody. but if the love is unrequited, is there a reason to be unhappy? definitely not. be proud you've loved. you never lose in loving. it's always a win-win situation. just be sure to love with all your heart. it's never simple though. nothing is. imagine a life with somebody who loves you - yet you could never love that person. would that be an happy life? but imagine a life with somebody whom you really love. well, just imagine. ;--) (hee hee)